"clothes make the man"
On the one hand there is truth to the idiom “there is no accounting in taste”.
On the other hand there is also truth to Gottfried Keller’s novella’s title “Clothes Make the Man”.
As for me, when it comes to fashion, I like the elegant-sporty-comfortable style. When I see people with outfits of that combination I get envious and each time I can’t help but ask myself:
“Why is it that I know what style I like but can’t get myself to look like that in my daily life?”
It’s like having a sense for the fashion I long for when I see it in front of me but having little sense left when I put on or buy clothes.
It's a true mystery to me!!
my personal stylist
Anyways!
The best way to move forward in a situation in which you know what you want but don’t know how to get it is to ask someone who DOES know. And that’s what I did.
I asked my friend Mai, who in my eyes is the personification of Elegant Sporty AND Comfortable in One, if she could help me shop the right clothes for me.
challenges
Before I tell you more about our shopping day let me bring to your attention that I am a curvy woman in a land of NOT very curvy women with most fashion retail shops offering M as their biggest size, which makes me often feel like an elephant trying to shop in an ant shop. In other words, it’s pretty frustrating for most Western women to shop in Japan, where Zara and Gap become your best friends.
In addition to that it was Mai’s first time to be a serious personal fashion stylist. It’s one thing to shop for yourself and to know what looks good on you and what does not. It’s a completely different story to find the right clothes for someone else, especially if that person has a different body shape.
Now you know. These were the exciting challenges we were facing.
being prepared
Therefore we wanted to be well prepared for the big shopping day. Since Mai lives far away from Osaka at the moment we needed to make her visit to Osaka count.
In order to be efficient and achieve our goal …
1) Mai kindly studied my fashion folder on Pinterest to get a vague idea of what I like.
2) She was so sweet to agree on staying over the night before, so she could check all my current clothes. She had to see what I already had in my closet and what I needed to purchase.
3) We had to confirm and decide what outfits I was looking for for this summer season and what pieces I definitely needed to buy.
4) We prepared a to-do list of what shops we should go to and in which order so that we didn’t waste any time.
5) Mai understood that my budget was small.
Finally the day came and I can’t tell you how pleased I was with the outcome at the end of our clothes hunt.
But let’s start at the beginning:
The night Mai checked my closet and made me wear 2/3 of my wardrobe in different combinations she impressed me with how quickly she understood what suits my body shape and what didn’t flatter my curves at all. With only a little tugging out a shirt here and pulling up a skirt there or adding a belt or accessories she managed to make me see my clothes with different eyes.
I was so fed up with so many of my pieces in my closet that I was close to throwing most of it out. Thanks to Mai though I learned how to put another complexion on them, how to combine them and how to spice them up by using different accessories.
This very exhausting process (we slept like a log that night) was also very beneficial for keeping the budget low. We knew that I didn’t have to buy as much as we thought we would have to.